There is one thing I know for sure. Betrayal can be one of the most devastating circumstances any individual can experience. Through a dozen years of working with (mostly) women who have faced betrayal in their marriages, I’ve learned what so many of the pitfalls linked to affairs are and thankfully, I've also learned what protections can be put in place to help protect you and minimize the possibility of facing betrayal ever or again. A significant portion of my experience has been with women who are married to sex addicts, so I’ve definitely been in the deep end of this pool, and I’ve learned what leads to these kinds of betrayals, how to heal and move forward from them, whether in or out of the relationship, as well as how to protect ourselves - as well as we can - from them. If you're reading this book, then you at least are aware of the potential, and you're wanting to protect your relationship to avoid the life altering pain and chaos of betrayal.